Can you grant others the freedom to be themselves? Even in your thoughts? Can you watch without judging even if they writhe and flail in the struggle to throw off the illusions that have kept them from being themselves?
Can you do this for yourself? Can you observe with love and compassion your own struggles to become yourself – alive, conscious, loving and joyful?
This is a time of birth into the new. You do not yet know who you are. You are discovering what is truly you and what is just a surface coating, a temporary protective shell.
You may find it helps to see all others who behave in ways you might be tempted to judge, as engaged in this same process – the quest to be free.
Act as you see fit. Be just without judging. All beings do their best.