There is infinite love for you. You might say that your role here on Earth is to accept this infinite love into your life.
Now let's express this idea in a different way. You yourself are infinite love. The infinite love that you are has chosen to express itself in a location in time and space where love is not yet fully known. You are the doorway through which infinite love becomes known on the earth plane.
When you judge yourself or another you close the door a little. When you release judgement the door swings open again. Practise being infinite love, for then you know your true nature. But don't practise too hard, for then you become tense and that closes the door a little too. Be gentle with yourself and the infinite love that you are comes to live with you.